Although getting a new dog is exciting, it can also be stressful. Everyone wants to get things started right, and for many of us, that means developing a close relationship with our new best friend.
However creating a strong bond takes time, just like in any relationship, there are some fairly easy ways to start doing so right away. Here are some ways to bond with your new dog, from setting up a routine to being consistent.
Be patient with your new dog
Patience is essential when trying to form a bond with a new dog. It may take a few weeks or even months for some dogs, while it may happen overnight for others. Each dog has a unique personality, and some dogs are slower to warm up to new people and environments than others. Dogs go through an adjustment period when put in a new situation, just like we do. Therefore, I want to emphasize how important it is to have patience before we get into some of the fun ways to bond with your new dog.
Don’t take it personally if your dog doesn’t immediately bond with a new owner. They’re in a completely new environment, adjusting to new sights, smells, and sounds. It can be a stressful time for your new dog, so keeping things calm and positive during those first few days can help make them feel more at ease. I know it’s tempting to go out and do everything with your new dog, but patience is sometimes required. If your dog appears fearful, go slowly and give them time to adjust to their new home and family. If your new dog is showing signs of stress or fear, don’t overburden them by inviting everyone over to meet them on the first day.
2. Create and keep a Schedule
Dogs enjoy routines, so sticking to one from the start can help your new dog adjust. Routines provide comfort and teach your dog what is expected of them at all times. Because dogs thrive on routine, the sooner your new dog learns how your home works, the more at ease he’ll be. You can assist your new dog in adjusting to your home by:
Feeding every day at the same time
Going outside for potty breaks regularly
At the same time, you’re going for your daily walk.
Going to bed at the same time every night
This includes exercise, cuddle time, and any other everyday games or activities she will participate in. I understand that many owners want to spend as much time as possible with their new puppy, which is fantastic. However, for the first few weeks, try to mix at least part of your typical activities into the day to assist your dog in acclimatising to what will become her normal schedule.
3. Stick to the Rules Consistently
Remember to be consistent and clear when bonding with your new puppy. When it comes to training, make sure everyone in the family is on the same page. Sit down as a family and make sure everyone agrees on what behaviours are unacceptable and which ones should be rewarded. Having a varied set of rules depending on who is providing the orders is the easiest way to confuse and frustrate a dog.
If you don’t want your dog on the furniture, make sure everyone follows the rule and rewards the same behaviours. It’s not fair to punish your dog for a behaviour you despise but your husband encourages. You can avoid frustration by ensuring that everyone in the family agrees on acceptable behaviours.
4. Give Your Dog Their Own Space
Imagine yourself in your dogs' shoes (or paws) for a moment — surrounded by strangers in a new place where everything is unknown.
Some dogs may feel overwhelmed in the first few days, and giving them their own particular spot can help reduce some of that fear.
Consider providing your new puppy with a warm bed, crate, or safe location where he can retire when he’s tired. Some dogs want a spot to relax every now and again, especially when they are stressed by being in a new area. If your dog does retreat to his favourite spot, don’t take it personally and give him some time to relax — being in a new area can be stressful.
5. Play With Your Dog One of the most enjoyable ways to bond with your new dog is to engage in some interactive play with them. Some dogs will be eager to play the moment they arrive home, while others may need to be coaxed. If your dog is unwilling to play, it could be because he is still overwhelmed by his new surroundings; give him some time to settle in before trying again.
If you want to play with your dog, try a simple game of chase/fetch. Try rolling a toy around on the ground to see if you can entice them to chase it. If they’re still not interested, demonstrate how it’s done by chasing the toy yourself to demonstrate how much fun it is. Here are some more entertaining dog games to do with your new puppy:
Frisbee
Find It (treats hidden)
Food dispensing toys
Tug of war
6. Relax Together
When it comes to bonding with a new dog, nothing beats some quality one-on-one time chilling out together. Invite your dog up onto the couch for some cuddle time, or get down on the ground and demonstrate your doggie massage techniques. Every evening, Laika and I have our own cuddle time on the couch. Chilling out is a great way to spend some quality time together before bed, and by incorporating it into your routine, you can teach your dog that 9 p.m. (or whatever time you choose) is the time to unwind.
7. Excercise With Your Dog
Giving your dog enough physical exercise is essential for their health, and there are numerous ways to make it a fun bonding experience. It’s also good for you because all that fresh air and physical activity can be a great stress reliever.
Taking your new dog for a walk to explore their new neighbourhood is one of the best ways to bond with them. Because they’re unfamiliar with the area, give them some extra time to explore and take in all the exciting new sights and smells.
8. Hand Feeding
Hand-feeding your dog simply means feeding him out of your hand, and it is especially beneficial for shy or fearful dogs. It’s an exercise that will help you and your dog build trust, and it’s a good way to start strengthening that bond. If you don’t want your dog to eat directly from your hand, you can have them sit nicely while you give them treats. That closeness still fosters trust (and can help improve their manners) and teaches your dog that you are a source of good things (which is extremely beneficial when training).
9. Practice Some Simple Tricks
Puppies are not too young to learn basic tricks, and training is an excellent way to bond with your new dog. Just keep in mind that their attention span is limited, so keep your training sessions brief. You’ll also want to teach your dog to come when called, so start laying the groundwork for a dependable recall.
Don’t know where to start with training your new dog? Here are some simple tricks to get you started:
Sit
Lie Down
Shake
Stay
Look at me
10. Encourage the Behaviors You Enjoy
When you bring your new dog home, keep in mind that he or she will be unfamiliar with the rules and your preferences. If your dog does something you like, let them know with verbal praise or affection.
If your dog waits patiently while you prepare dinner, compliment them on their good behaviour. And if your dog sits nicely as you put on his leash before taking him out, praise him. You can encourage your dog to repeat desired behaviours by clearly communicating with them that they are doing something good.
Be patient, consistent, and upbeat.
Each dog is unique, with their own set of experiences and personalities. It could take an hour for your dog to settle in and bond with you, or it could take months. Give your new dog some time, consistency, a consistent schedule, and his own space, and he’ll begin to feel at ease in his new surroundings. Maintain a positive attitude and patience; your new dog will become your best friend before you know it.
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